I have given birth 3 times since this thread was started. 
Anyways, just wanted to give the perspective of someone on the lower end of the income spectrum. We live on my husband's income (military) and I stay home with our 3 yr old daughter (older boys in school.) We don't have a lot of discretionary income but we live comfortably enough.
I believe there is more to buying fakes than how much money you have because I haven't been able to afford a LV thus far but you won't see me carrying a fake. I think there is something about the psychology of a person that buys a fake. I believe they care more about what someone thinks of them they what they think about themselves.
I am turning 30 this year, in August. My hubby and I have discussed buying a LV Alma for this milestone birthday. By then our only debt, our car, will be paid off and we will be able to afford this special and rare expense. I've always loved handbags, when I was 16 I would buy nine west at the local macy's and now I carry Rebecca Minkoff. I hope to get an LV for my 30th bday and that is special because it signifies a new stage in my life. A new decade, the days of diaper bags are behind me and hopefully more date nights with my husband. A fake is just another bag and not special unless putting on airs feeds your soul in someway.
I guess I do "judge" people that knowingly carry fakes. I feel bad that they are so compelled to fit in that they lose their sense of right & wrong. It also makes me sad that someone here (I quoted but it didn't show up) says they don't worry about it because it is only 1-3 days of discretionary pay. I am not really sure what that has to do with any morality issues but it makes me sad that designer bags are a dime a dozen for you. I much rather be me and enjoy one as something rare and precious.
I would be ashamed to carry a fake. Just my 2 cents.
Groupthink?

Anyways, just wanted to give the perspective of someone on the lower end of the income spectrum. We live on my husband's income (military) and I stay home with our 3 yr old daughter (older boys in school.) We don't have a lot of discretionary income but we live comfortably enough.
I believe there is more to buying fakes than how much money you have because I haven't been able to afford a LV thus far but you won't see me carrying a fake. I think there is something about the psychology of a person that buys a fake. I believe they care more about what someone thinks of them they what they think about themselves.
I am turning 30 this year, in August. My hubby and I have discussed buying a LV Alma for this milestone birthday. By then our only debt, our car, will be paid off and we will be able to afford this special and rare expense. I've always loved handbags, when I was 16 I would buy nine west at the local macy's and now I carry Rebecca Minkoff. I hope to get an LV for my 30th bday and that is special because it signifies a new stage in my life. A new decade, the days of diaper bags are behind me and hopefully more date nights with my husband. A fake is just another bag and not special unless putting on airs feeds your soul in someway.
I guess I do "judge" people that knowingly carry fakes. I feel bad that they are so compelled to fit in that they lose their sense of right & wrong. It also makes me sad that someone here (I quoted but it didn't show up) says they don't worry about it because it is only 1-3 days of discretionary pay. I am not really sure what that has to do with any morality issues but it makes me sad that designer bags are a dime a dozen for you. I much rather be me and enjoy one as something rare and precious.
I would be ashamed to carry a fake. Just my 2 cents.
There is a sociological term for that behavior, but I have perpetual mom brain now, so I cannot remember it. While I believe in being culturally sensitive, I don't believe in moral relativism. If it's wrong, it's wrong.
Groupthink?