Awesome ! And yes... that could be a serious balancing act of trying to be appropriate. I bet, even when you are dressed down and super casual, you are called out for being over dressed or dressy. New York is awesome in that way... everybody does what ever they want to do and dress however they want to dress... I spend all my time and most of my money there. lol. New Jersey is getting better with people caring about their appearance, I think I started a trend. I'm usually super casual with a pair of fitted jeans and a fitted tee shirt from a Broadway show, but with great shoes, usually
Gucci and accessories and my jewelry stacks... Even now when I go to the Walmart, I see people that I've always seen, but now, they seem to care a little about their appearance, and make sure they spot me for conversation... I am sure they are seeking my approval and hope I noticed the change (as my Wife puts it). My Wife and my Son is heading to Orlando for the weekend to visit her college friends. I am staying here to hang out in NYC alone to soak up the energy that only New York can give. I've tried to hang in different parts of Florida a few times... got tired of justifying my existence to everyone. Now Miami... especially South Beach... that's my other hangout ! They are not intimidated by or of style, being different and standing out. Couldn't and wouldn't want to live there though.
"J!m"