what do you think of quirky engagement rings?

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ford8161

ford8161

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Jun 21, 2008
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#1
Hi ladies, I need some advice. My origianal engagement ring went down the plughole by accident, so we have to get a new one. The dilemma I am facing is that I have seen a beautiful, unusual ring, in garnet, white gold and yellow gold, but my friends and family think I should go for something traditional, as they say that the ring I have chosen is more an everyday ring, rather than engagement. The ring I have seen, tried on and fallen in love with is by an artist called les grimshaw (google it and you will see his work under an art gallery called cry of the gulls, I am really sorry but I have nooooooo idea how to upload a picture!!!)

My original ring was traditional, and it never felt quite right, I am a quirky kind of gal (according to DF), I have tattoos, dress how I please and love colour and unique jewellry, so this ring is perfect for me. Also, I can have a wedding band made as am exact match, and DF can have a wedding band that will fit him and his style (he is a bit arty).

What do you think, are quirky engagement rings ok, or should I go for diamonds? I know that this is a pretty insignificant thing to ask, but I need some advice, and you lovely ladies are usually so helpful!!! Thank you!big kisses!!!xxxxxxx
 
#2
I would go with what you love! You will be the one wearing it, so why should anyone else get to choose? ;) As long as the ring is special to you, and you're sure that you will feel the same way about it in the future. As you said, your original ring never felt quite right.
 
#3
You are the one wearing it. Don't let anyone make you feel like your ring doesn't count because it isn't a diamond solitaire. (I am super sensitive about this kinda stuff.)

It sounds beautiful and you should go for it if you love it.
 
#4
Go for what speaks to you. Other people aren't going to be stuck wearing it. Don't wear a diamond if it's not you. I've seen diamonds on people just trying to fit in or measure up, and it gave the impression that they and their rings were rather forgettable, even though I knew they were not. DeBeers has only been around so long. Garnet engagement rings have been around longer. :)
 
#6
I agree that you need to get what YOU love! This ring is representative of your relationship and your love, not other people's expectations. This is a ring you will look at every single day, and it should make your heart skip a beat each time you look at it. I have always loved engagement and wedding bands that were different or that had colored stones instead of diamonds, or ones that had stories to go with them. Please go with the ring that makes your heart sing and not one that others pressure you to have!

Is it the 6th ring down on this page?
http://www.cryofthegulls.co.uk/artists.php?id=70
 
#7
That's a beautiful ring! I love the granulation and combo of silver and gold. You should definitely get the ring that suits you.

One thing I will say- some people may assume it is not an engagement ring or others will ask you if it is one. Just make sure you are comfortable with that.

I think once you pair it with a band and it looks like a set, that may make it more obvious to people who are curious.

Good luck!
 
#11
I say an engagement ring should speak about its wearer. It should be who YOU are. An e-ring is a token and a symbol of your relationship so it's about you, not about De Beers.

Wear what you love.
 
#12
Thanks for your advice ladies, I have been up all night thinking about it. I will post more info and pics when we get it.btw, I wouldlove to see if any of you have unusual engagement/wedding rings?!!

yes it is the 6th one down the page, we are poor, so cant afford much, as we are saving for a house and the wedding, I thought it was funky and as I left the shop I said to DF, they had better not sell the ring as it was mine!!!!

Thank you for your help, I knew that I could count on you lovely ladies!!!xxxxxxx
 
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