@Gabs007 @nicole0612 @Oikasecondhand @Annie J
I am so touched by the thorough guidance and reassurance that words are not enough. Thank you all. I appreciate each one of you taking the time to explain my options and Vestiaire's services. If I'm being honest, I was feeling unfocused at work the whole week because I was overwhelmed. Now that I have more information, there's less for me to worry about! I also learned so much about the luxury market simply by panicking to y'all (LOL).
To answer AnnieJ's question, I bought the item from a Private Seller via Affirm. This explains most of the panic. I don't have as many layers of insurance compared to if I'd made the purchase via CC or PayPal. Lesson learned there. More lessons learned:
- I had no idea that many bags don't actually come with authentication cards, or that some sellers prefer to hide their bag code numbers (for good reason).
- Also surprised that sellers can't add additional photos after an item has been sold. This kind of makes sense from an IT point of view, but this can also be scary for the buyer.
- VC sends sellers shipping reminders even if the seller has already shipped the item. (Love that for them...)
I shot VC an e-mail like Gabs007 recommended. In the e-mail, I gently requested if the Quality Check team could mark my bag for double-checking. Screenshots were included within the ask to explain my suspicions. Hopefully CS will get back to me soon!
As for authentication services, Authenticate4U promised to help me look over the bag once it arrives. If anyone has recommendations for authentication services, please let me know! I'd be interested to learn more about any accepted authenticators. I don't know much about those...
In the event where my bag is authentic but does not match the seller's description, I will immediately contact VC and pursue accommodations.
All of this being said, it's a relief that VC has been working on tightening up operations in lieu of complaints. I've only read negative reviews, and the ratio of bad-to-good feedback was alarming.
Ultimately I am VERY GRATEFUL and less panicked after reaching out to everyone here. Thank you all so much!! I will keep everyone updated. Have a lovely remainder of the weekend!
Tbh the negative reviews, first of all people who had a positive experience hardly make noise about it, somebody who's p... off about something tends to make a lot of noise...
As for Trustpilot, I honestly do not rely on them a lot, some companies seem to pay them to remove negative feedbacks, another site that gets highly praised on Trustpilot and hardly has negative feedback (as it tends to get removed) might look better, when in fact they are a lot less transparent. I made the experience myself when I had an issue with a company, they blanked my calls and ignored my mails, so I left a comment on Trustpilot with the request to get in touch with me, the company replied on TP and got in touch with me, and then TP claimed they could not authenticate my review (yet the company could) and it was removed, I wrote them and forwarded them copies of the order, their mail, no reply and no review... So if a company only has praise on TP, I assume that I need to be very very careful.
I did a bit of digging around after that and found a few interesting things:
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=4790697
So calm down, seriously, do not stress because of TP, you should be more alarmed if you would read only good reviews.
As the buyer you are in a stronger position, it is just important that you contact them ASAP as soon as you get your item with any doubts, weeks later it will look strange, have a white sheet or background ready where you can take your own pictures and show any discrepancies. You also have to remember they are in France, France takes a very dim view to any item that is fake, I really doubt VC can afford to get into trouble with one of the big fashion houses.
If you write to their customer service, you should get an automated email back that they received your mail, this will have all their numbers listed so you can call for a cheap country rate, I would also follow it up with a call.
As I said, I am a compulsive buyer and up to a certain amount of disposable income, often do not think about how much use I get out of an item, so I might end up with something that looks great - just not on me and resell it, quite a few of my purchases were late night VC "Ohhhh I like that" buys and I honestly only had an issue once.
The delay in delivery seems to be more with the delivery companies.
As for affirm, never used it so really do not know anything about it, but why not contact them and ask about possible protection?
For now, you have everything in place should something have gone wrong, before you got the item, there is nothing you can do anyway, so don't stress and waste your energy on that. I recall my first purchase with VC, I was pretty much in the same state you were and everything went fine.