Dear ladies, I have a small puzzle for you. I have turned this situation around and around I can't figure out what went wrong..
Ok, here is a bit background info first. I don't have the luxury & luck to have H store in my country (but I do have this lovely community and the world's best re-seller who I totally trust

). However, I have a dear friend who just moved back to a country with one H store. I thought I would try to build some relationship with that store through my friend. And she was kind to visit the store on my behalf (she is a LV girl herself), to try to get a bag for me.
I had prepared the situation a bit because my friend doesn't know anything about H. I called to the store and talked with this male SA who sounded very nice and helpful. He told me that I could give a wish list (yes, a wish list) to my friend and she could come to the store with it so he could see what he can do for me. He said they had some bags in the color I was interested in. He also understood the difficulty I have living in a country without H store.
So, I gave a list to my friend. It included two B´s,two Kellys, an Evelyne and a PIcotin plus a clic clac. Of course it was a wish list, so I was hoping there would be one or two of these items I could have the possibility to buy. NOT the whole list at one time.
I have done my home work and read the tips from this forum, so I thought I would now do everything RIGHT. I also added my current collection for the SA to read (very small, few GM shawls, wallet and a necklace beside of few bags). My whole intention was to show him I wasn't just after a Kelly or a Birkin, but have his more "holistic & profound" understanding of the fine world of Hermes (

).
My friend asked for advice how to dress or what to say/not say in the store. I just told her to be herself, nothing more or less. I had just read the post from another member who had the info from SA that around 70% of the clients in the store are usually re-sellers. So I didn't want my friend trying to be something else which could be interpreted as a fake act and perhaps she would be considered as a re-seller.
So she went to the store. She told me her heart was beating because she was stressed she would do something wrong (at this point I was amused because it IS a bit funny we have to go through so much for this brand, yes an amazing brand, but still..). But the store was quite empty and she found the right SA easily. He was as kind as on the phone and they chatted for a while and my friend told me she wasn't stressed anymore. She felt there was a good connection between her and the SA. But then she handed him the phone with my wishlist...
... and she told me his attitude changed in a second.
He had read my txt msg carefully, said "oh-la-laa". His face was a bit more serious now and he had talked briefly with couple of other SA's. To my friend he told that he would go quickly to check something from the store, then went to another room, checked his computer. To my friend he said that they would not have anything on the list and that he will send info by email to explain how to order a bag. And my friend wen out from the store, feeling very confused.
As was I when she phoned me and described the whole situation. She emphasized that the whole attitude of this SA had changed when he saw my wish list. I can't figure out WHY. First, he asked me to do a wish list. I do it, with few bags (not like tens of them), smaller accessories included, and I also try to show I am not just after a BIrkin.
My dear PF'ers, can you tell me what I did wrong here? Or have we both interpreted the situation somehow wrong..