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Not harsh at all, I have a pretty good sense of humor and respect your opinion even though I might not completely agree with it!You make good points, but I'm not entirely sure we have the same scenario in mind.
A Birkin probably wasn't the best item to use in my hypotheticals, since some seem to be expanding the discussion by raising points that are factual, such as a Birkin being up for grabs and not on any waitlist existing highly unlikely. I wish I had made it a Bearn wallet, so it's less stressful for the mind to imagine the scenario rationally.
If I were a new customer and I really really really REALLY loved an item which someone else had already committed to buy, I would just be patient and wait for my turn. But, if the other person wasn't even sure of buying it, then by golly, yes, I think it would be unfair if I couldn't see it or buy it. I will go home with my lovely orange Bearn, goddammit! TODAY!!!
If I were a loyal customer and was interested (key word: interested, NOT CERTAIN of buying) in the orange Bearn wallet that had just come in, of course I would be disappointed if someone else snapped it up before me before I could see it. But I wouldn't hold it against anyone. Not the SA, because it wasn't a pre-order or waitlist item for me (key words: pre-order or waitlist, SURE of buying). Not the new customer either, because maybe it was just her lucky day. I'd be disappointed at first, yes, but ultimately, I'd be okay with it since a.) I knew I wasn't entitled to the item since I didn't commit to it and that b.) it probably made someone else's day full of joy and c.) created a possibly long-lasting and rewarding relationship between my SA and a new customer. (Wait, not sure if more competition is a good thing... Hehe!)
(Hopefully, no one will be responding with "Oh but stores usually carry more than one Bearn wallet, so that can never happen." LOL!)
I'm not sure I follow what you're trying to say, but my opinion is, unless I make it clear that I'm buying it, I'm not entitled to it and anyone else can buy it. Stores and SA's regardless of the brand can obviously do what they deem proper according to their own policies, regardless of what I think is fair.
Of course that's different--you can't mess with air-tight plastic containers. If my local store had sold the last one to someone other than me when I had called them to explicitly say that I was coming to purchase it, I would unleash the passion and fury of a thousand suns upon them and may God have mercy on their souls.
BostonGirl88 - The definition of HOLD in my store is that the item is on hold, with the On Hold sticker on the box put away from the counter until the client comes to see it. There is often an expiration date of hold.If I were a new customer and I really really really REALLY loved an item which someone else had already committed to buy, I would just be patient and wait for my turn. But, if the other person wasn't even sure of buying it, then by golly, yes, I think it would be unfair if I couldn't see it or buy it. I will go home with my lovely orange Bearn, goddammit! TODAY!!!
To be realistic, many times it will work this way:I think it depends on the degree of preferential treatment involved.
Scenario 2: That afternoon, a new customer walks in the store and asks if they have any red Birkins available. SA says they have none, even though they do. This sort of preferential treatment is what I find unacceptable--it's dishonest. I don't think an SA should lie about merchandise for anyone, unless there is an actual purchase agreement involved. In this sense, all customers should have the same chance of getting the item--everyone has their own luck, and maybe this time it's the new customer's turn.
Scenario 3: New customer walks in and asks if they have any red Birkins available. SA says they do and shows it to new customer but informs her that someone else has already expressed interest in it. If new customer still falls in love with it and buys it, SA calls loyal customer immediately to tell her the bad news. If new customer doesn't buy it, SA calls loyal customer and asks her if she would like to view it sooner since someone else looked at it in the store today.
If you are so concerned about the service received in the stores, it's a contradiction to insist that a walk in deserves to buy a sought after item before someone on a wait list.
You seem to be equating intent to buy with an offer made to hold an item. The store is not holding an item contingent on intent to buy, so therefore, it is pointless to factor it in. They are doing it as a courtesy to the customer. If intent to buy was a key issue, Hermes would insist on deposits to hold items in the store. Or they would say if the item is in the store when you get there, it's yours if you want it.
I find it hard to believe that anyone would appreciate being precluded from their right to purchase if they were in mistikat's shoes and wanted the navy CDC or orange Bearn. I've been told that's the way the world works, but that doesn't mean it's fair or I have to like it.
I feel like Hermes Frustrating Policies 101 class is going on on this threadThanks for the comprehensive reply. A+.
and she's not alone.So you think it's ok to rip people off? Resellers are the reason the luxury handbag industry is becoming more and more ridiculous. Designers don't like resellers anymore than the buyers do. I work hard for my money, I'm not gonna throw it away by purchasing from a reseller. Example: there's a reseller that had a beautiful flap bag in fuchsia from this year for sale. I asked her how much and she told me $6500 for a m/l. That is $2000 OVER retail, for an item currently being sold in stores. For that I could buy a flap and a wallet or another bag from another designer. That is absolutely absurd and I'm kind of surprised that's the attitude some women are responding with.
I'm not sure I follow what you're trying to say, but my opinion is, unless I make it clear that I'm buying it, I'm not entitled to it and anyone else can buy it. Stores and SA's regardless of the brand can obviously do what they deem proper according to their own policies, regardless of what I think is fair.