I like both. I have brought more shoulder bags than top handles in my life. As purse lovers, many of us carried purses when we were teens, preteens, and younger. As a preteen I carried a small satchel. Then I switched to shoulder bags. I made a change about four years ago after falling in love with the satchel shape again. I asked myself if I would love to carry a bag by hand, and then I remembered how I loved carrying my small satchel as a preteen. The bag just needs to be not heavy for me to carry. My threshold for carrying heavy bags is not low. I carry my satchels by the elbow when I need my hands free. Shoulder bags are the best for hands free activities of course.