Tiffany's proposal dilemma

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victor2101

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Hello Ladies,

As you might already know if you've read my previous thread (http://forum.purseblog.com/the-jewelry-box/tiffany-engament-ring-men-in-need-566280.html) I'm a 24 y old Belgian man who's going to make his marriage proposal in New York in May. I'd go for a 0.5ct classical Tiffany's setting ering :) She's young and very thin, nothing would suit her more perfectly.

Presently my girlfriend lives in Europe while I live in Montreal since January (doing a University exchange program thing).
So when we are going to meet again In New York it will be 5 months without seeing each other (god, I think my english shows its limits there lol...)
She's never been in NY and neither have I...

I originally planed to propose her while we're sitting on a bench in Central Park. That's the more "intimate" and classical proposal option...

But recently, another idea has come into my mind...
As we miss each other terribly and as I anticipate the reunion at the airport to be tearsfull (does this word even exist ?) I'm thinking wether I would not propose her right away AT the airport !
I've been thinking about waiting her with a nice cardboard sign with "XXX will you marry me? " on it at the arrivals gate.
That's the very less intimate-crowd-clapping option.

Anyway she absolutly has no clue about it and she'll be shocked anyways (even more when she'll understand where's the ring from).

What you wise ladies do think about it ?
Be honest please !

Thank you very much in advance,

Victor
 
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#2
I personally prefer a more intimate proposal and my fiance did well on it.

Again, it really depends on your gf's personality. I know girls who are more showy and prefer more of a public proposal.
 
#3
I agree with musicscrip, it really depends on your gf's personality.
I do like both of your ideas though! Tell us a little more about your gf, that would probably help us to help you!
 
#5
Definitely depends on your GF - but I'd strongly prefer the Central Park proposal. Sweet, beautiful - and personally, I never feel fresh when I get off a plane - I'm usually harried and stressed.
 
#6
I think she might be a little too overwhelmed at the airport. I would wait until she's been there for a day or two, so that she's not exhausted from the plane ride. Central Park in May is gorgeous, and I think the perfect place would be The Mall. It's so beautiful and classic looking.
 
#7
I think either will be wonderful! And there is something to be said about having that special moment after such a long time apart. Please keep us updated!!!
 
#8
Many wise responses here. I agree that it totally depends on your GF's personality. Is she very outgoing, very social, loves being in big crowds? Do you think she'd enjoy an airport proposal? Personally, I would just be so happy to see my boyfriend that the shock of being proposed to right as I step off the airplane after 5 months apart would be a little too overwhelming and too much to process.

The Central Park proposal is unquestionably romantic. I'd rather be proposed to in an intimate setting where I can savor every single moment quietly and in private with my new fiance. :smile1:
 
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KristyDarling said:
Many wise responses here. I agree that it totally depends on your GF's personality. Is she very outgoing, very social, loves being in big crowds? Do you think she'd enjoy an airport proposal? Personally, I would just be so happy to see my boyfriend that the shock of being proposed to right as I step off the airplane after 5 months apart would be a little too overwhelming and too much to process.

The Central Park proposal is unquestionably romantic. I'd rather be proposed to in an intimate setting where I can savor every single moment quietly and in private with my new fiance. :smile1:
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Very well said! Personally, I am a very private person and would feel very awkward sharing an important moment like a proposal in front of a crowd of strangers. My preference would be for something intimate like a proposal in Central Park, which is so beautiful. But, it really depends on your girlfriend's personality- some girls would really enjoy the public proposal. If you're really not sure what she would like, my advice would be to take the safe route and propose in Central Park. I don't think anyone would be unhappy with that proposal- sit down with her in a beautiful spot and tell her how you feel, you can't go wrong.
 
#10
The airport one sounds overwhelming and after a long flight her reaction to being surprised like that might not be a good one, even if she does really want to marry you. I'm also not a fan of proposals in front of crowds.
 
#11
I agree with the other's who said that an airport proposal (while very sweet) might be a tad overwhelming. I think Central Park would be a very lovely setting for a proposal.
 
#12
When I was flying frequently, I usually came off the plane feeling slightly worse than chopped liver. My then BF was amazing - he would greet me with my favorite flowers, and then have a glass of whiskey and dinner ready for me when I got home.
I think that, if it was me, I would prefer to be met at the airport with her favorite flowers or something soothing. Maybe a sign that says "Most Beautiful Woman in the World." Not a marriage proposal... yet. Save that for Central Park
Save that for the next day.
 
#13
All due respect, I don't think the proposal at the airport is a good idea. I am sure she would be exhausted after flying in from Europe (I usually am) and just want to relax after a long flight. The proposal at Central Park sounds wonderful and romantic. Why don't you enjoy the city first? since both of you have never been to New York. But whatever you chose, I am sure she will love it.:smile1:
 
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