Actually, ladies, the weight of the bag is going to depend on the leather and the hardware, and then what you put in it. From my own investigations, I would say 75% of the bags I check out are too heavy to carry comfortably before they even have anything in them.
So true. I am finding it very hard to buy a good decent leather tote for work. The ones I like are already heavy when empty. All the light ones are either canvas or nylon.