The Kourtney Kardashian (& Scott Disick if necessary) Thread

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Same with "shotgun" engagements. A man never asked you to marry him, but as soon as you announce you are pregnant, he wants to marry you? No thank you.


This! These situations always come off as a way for a man to assuage his guilt and not from love or deep commitment.

I know whereof I speak. This was the case for my parents. No love there, I was resented and they heaped physical and verbal abuse upon me to punish me for my existence, and for them having to stay together. I no longer speak to them and I am finally happy and I am valued by my husband and daughter.

A couple who marries because of appearances or because "it is the right thing", isn't doing the right thing for anyone.
 
Two of our friends just got divorced for this reason. Very unhappy marriage that only happened because she fell pregnant. Then he felt trapped and it went on for 6 years and one more child.
 
This all day!!!!

Why is it so hard for women to understand - just because a man is your boyfriend, does not mean he is suppose to be the father of your children.




preach!! :ghi5:


first one - ok. but a second AND a third - please don't act like you didn't know him better by then! i don't get why people waste good time trying to say they feel sorry for her. she is not a victim - those kids are.
 
He was not husband material but she had no problems making 3 kids with him?? I will never understand that mentality at all!!

I agree !!! Why would you start having children with someone you know you don't want to be engaged to because the relationship might stop one day ? It's a big no. If you have children, it's with the person you love and you think you will spend the rest of your life with. Sadly, it often doesn't happen. But why would you have children with someone you already know won't be here with you "forever" ? For me -and this might sound really cheesy- children are the result of two people being in love - it's the representation, "the product", of both of you and it represents love. Having kids just to have kids ? No. And I think that's what Kourtney was all about when having children. She said multiple times that she loved being pregnant. And I know the first one was a "mistake" (I mean that it wasn't expected) but then she just stopped taking the pill and kept having children even though she knew she wasn't going to stay with Scott forever.

This has nothing to do with the subject but I'm gonna add that I find couples that get married or have children after 6 months or 1 year absolutely annoying.
 
This! These situations always come off as a way for a man to assuage his guilt and not from love or deep commitment.

I know whereof I speak. This was the case for my parents. No love there, I was resented and they heaped physical and verbal abuse upon me to punish me for my existence, and for them having to stay together. I no longer speak to them and I am finally happy and I am valued by my husband and daughter.

A couple who marries because of appearances or because "it is the right thing", isn't doing the right thing for anyone.

:hugs: good for you.

It drives me crazy when people stay together for the kids. Kids are not stupid and know when parents are not happy. Sorry, I am not staying in a screwed up relationship for the kids just so we can be a family. There are many types of families and IMO, you can't be a good parent if you are unhappy.
 

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