Nana,
Just ran across this post. Why? Because it takes an attitude of supreme indifference to what they guy in the other car is thinking when he sees you filling the tank of your SUV while you are wearing an object assumed to be an item of women's clothing around your neck. You sense that 99 out of 100 assume you are gay, which is not necessarily a bad thing, except if you are not. One cannot be fragile if you are gonna go out there wearing an item of clothing shared with your wife which is not a ball cap. Especially in these homophobic fly-over regions of USA.
John in DFW
... And on top of that, if I may add, not everyone was born to be glamorous!
