As much as I love the butterfly (I would like to get it myself some day) I don't see it as an everyday piece. So I vote for the VCA Alahambra pendant with diamonds for everyday. It's very understated and chic and I love the simplicity.
I agree! That was my first pick of all of them... simple, stunning, iconic, wearable... it's perfect!! How much is it? I saw the 10 motif version on monday in person and it *** SPARKLES!!! *** Sooo pretty!!!
Re the butterfly - totally agree about the Mariah Carey thing... LOL... and the young thing... plus am not sure it qualifies as iconic the way the alhambra does?
good luck - i can't wait to see what you choose!!!!!