this is why people may assume things ... as i have been living without parents help since i was 15 so i have had a long time and maybe grew up a bit too quick i dont know
this is why i explained i was planning on starting saving now for a matter of years
this is why i explained i was planning on starting saving now for a matter of years

Girl, when I was your age, I didn't even have a thought about gold Rolex watches, Cartier Love Bracelets, Tiffany diamond rings. I was busy trying to work at my first 'real' job, buy a house with my parents help, and wondering how the heck I was going to put furniture in said house!
You have great taste, but these things are by no means easy to obtain. Nobody on this board can tell you if it's better to have a ring, a watch, how much you should spend, etc. Don't get caught up in what the ladies on this forum have, its NOT the norm.
What do your friends and coworkers have? How much do you have to spend? Have you already saved for your wedding?
Nobody is trying to hurt your feelings, just put your questions into perspective. Sure it's possible that someone would be considering all these purchases simultaneously, but even the ladies with lots of Hermes and Chanel bags listed on their signature don't often buy so many big ticket items together.