@LKBNOLA , I thought the FetP was too close to Paisley before seeing the comparison pictures. Paisley is also more flattering, has more colors. The gris chine FetP doesn't convince me. I loved the petrol Grand Tralala on the website but find this tone of blue a little rigid on you. Perhaps, a looser knot would be better. Hopefully, I am no fun spoiler but since there is still lots of room for variety in your cashmere collection, I would send the FetP back. You are beautiful no matter what scarf you wear.