I actually ended up returning the speedy. I found myself not reaching for it when I went out to dinner or even when I went to a winery. I figured if I was that nervous to use it (and stain it), it probably isn't the bag for meThe Since 1984 onthego is on my wish list. How is the jacquard fabric holding up to those who have Since 1984 bags? I am worried that it’s too delicate - I don’t want to see any frays on the bag!