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I would feel uncomfortable about taking something like that from a sibling, but if he really wants you to have them, take them.
I'm 7 years younger than him so I'll always be his "baby sister" lol. He always buys me things so accepting the studs is no big deal. It's more a question of the history of this particular item. But again, I have decided to change the setting and keep them.
Why would she give them back to him? It isn't like they were an Ering or something. Whose idea was it for her to give them back?
So my brother and his gf broke up () and she's giving him back the .750 diamond studs that he got for her. He wants me to take them.
Right now I have .375 studs which I know are on the smaller side but I'm comfortable with the size. Of course I'd prefer the larger size but I don't think I would feel right taking these earrings. This girl and I didn't have the best relationship and I feel like I'd always associate my studs with her. I'm nervous I'll never be able to consider them MY earrings. They'll always be the crazy ex's that I now get to wear.
Just curious to get some opinions. Am I thinking too much into this and I should just take the studs and run? Or should I tell my brother to save them for our 15 month old niece?