All good points and very valid.As I said above, I would rather it go to someone who would be absolutely over the moon, that would be such a joy for them. Also when I decline I give my reasons why, (it also helps me to never return a bag ever) and my SAs then have a better idea of my taste and what I already own. It helps them to help me fine tune and curate my collection better, minimise regrets and they can also offer surprises which we never knew existed before.