Ok, I'm fairly set on Freshadama pearls, because it seems that although they are different to Akoyas, they are still gem quality pearls, an investment piece, and (happily) still at better prices to Akoyas. When I finally get around to purchasing, I'll be waiting for a strand with good orient, and I'm happy to wait it out.
Anyhoo.... I'm tossing up a few things. First, size. It's either the 7.5-8mm or the 8.5-9mm. My first instinct is the larger ones but I'm unsure - I'm 36 years old, 5'4" and small to medium frame, so unsure what looks best and whether the small ones will work when I'm 50... But at the same time I don't want to pay a premium for the larger size if they won't look that different. The price is about double.
Other question - should I buy a complete set with the necklace, studs and bracelet, or forgo the bracelet? Do those of you with sets wear all the pieces?
I'd rather save money on that item if I won't wear it much (I'm so unsure about that), but I also don't want to regret not having a matched set later...
Ahh, decisions! I've never been into pearls before, but I'm suddenly obsessed!