see it at a specific store, then instant say "nope that store isn't even worth trying
My SA has done this^. But, if he can transfer or order from a cooperative store or the warehouse, DH and I get a choice of home or store. For a gift, I always pick the appropriate send address; for us, always the store.
I rarely ask for a transfer or order bc I prefer to simply go to the store to see what is fun; new; and, of course, in my budget. But, on the occasions that I do ask for it (oxymore champagne flutes or specific sweaters for DH that he knows will work), like
@nakedmosher2of3, I’m quite sure I will keep the item. I rarely return. I’ve been fortunate in this respect.
@Kimchoi12 ‘s method works for her and her SA
No SA has ever obligated or pressured me to purchase (mainly bc DH or i invariably end up finding something else we love more). An example is that at the Resee, the women’s RTW manager recommended a leather jacket I saw on someone else. Around the same time, at the store, SA contacted DH and me re a men’s denim jacket I wanted to try for myself. Both items were transferred in, no obligation, while I was away, so I came in a week later. No one liked either one on me (I take a poll/vote between SA, DH, and myself re fit, style, and color).
But, as it turned out, DH decided he wanted the denim jacket for himself. (We try not to buy the same item, and on men’s RTW, I give him first dibs lol) He also found two pairs of pants, a cashmere sweater with some leather trim, and a shirt. Everything evens out when we can get to the boutique; this would not have worked had my SA only been able to charge send to home.
ETA: I tend not to buy stuff that is super high demand lol, and stuff that is transferred in tends to be what the SM or SA think would work for me (request not originating with me) which may be reasons why no one has mentioned this policy to me.