I really want a very soft bag -at least in a Birkin.I've said it before but I wouldn't buy heritage leathers new as a first choice unless 1) it was a unicorn (Box mini Kelly, K25 Barenia) or 2) I wanted it perfect. Box especially doesn't hold value at resale and I kind of think Sombrero is the same.
Are you ok with a very soft bag? Swift in a B35 will puddle. I have a TB26 in Swift and it's completely puddly, which I love, but you must be ok with that.
I think you should go ahead and request a bag, but as others have said the bag may come fast. Your SA was very specific and let's be honest, this is not the most popular size nor the most popular colors and leathers. This makes me suspect your SA knows one of these will come in. Can you ask for a bag that you KNOW you will want and be willing to pay for?
If you really don't think you'll bite the bullet (and I can't blame you, these are huge purchases), I would look at preloved. It is a GREAT time to buy a B35 at resale.....and you can even look for noir Barenia. If I saw a noir Barenia B35 at a price close to what I could get for my noir B35 Togo, I would be swapping out in a heartbeat.
Note: I was talking to a consignment director at TheRealReal yesterday and she told me Birkins are NOT selling well, especially 35s. So....again....take the moment. It will not last![]()
I see so many in my job (luxury fashion retail) on a daily basis and they all look very stiff and structured and 'new' to be honest its become such a common sighting that I cant tell which are real and which are fake!
I love the look of a slouchy 'used' Birkin.
I've never been a fan of grained leather in Birkin's but like it a lot in a more 'hobo' style like the Gao,Evelyn (though even in that I actually prefer the Sellier version)and Jypsiere.
Funnily enough my SA kept suggesting a 30cm though my heart actually loves the 40 (which I believe is the original 'Jane' Birkin)
the only reason I wouldn't wish for a 40 is the weight factor because he did keep telling me its a very heavy bag.
I did try a 30cm in the store back in August and I felt it just wasn't 'me' it looked too stiff and formal somehow.
although I'm 60 I wear a lot of Japanese designers, Belgian, Old Celine or vintage 70's stuff , Old french workwear or jeans with a grandad shirt or a vintage Chanel or YSL jacket on a day off.
I suppose I'm a bit of a bohemian and therefore I love the way Jane Birkin wears her bag!
I've seen some pretty well priced Birkins on consignment sites but they all seems to be in the US or Japan so once I factor in shipping, customs etc they're actually only £1000 or so less than new!.
I'm getting in far too much of a tizzy over this

Thing is..wether preloved or new the leather for me is EVERYTHING!