These are all the issues I struggle with, too! At the end of the day, I realize there is some intrinsic value to owning a Cartier, Hermes, VCA, etc. There is a confidence in the quality of the product and a deep-rooted heritage. So, we are paying for the brand and legacy for sure. I also find myself shifting my priorities though. A few years ago, I placed a lot of value on handbags and went through an Hermes phase. Now my focus has moved towards jewelry and obtaining items that make me happy!! But it definitely comes at a cost. Totally first world problems we are lucky to have.