Americans don't understand this mindset, never having had to leave the country fleeing terror regimes, nor having had the government confiscate private property or devalue the currency to nothing. when they hear 'investment' they think of stocks or real estate, not of having to depend on what's in the jewelry box to get across the border if $$$ suddenly became no good. Nobody would care about the little CCs or the Tiffany blue box then! they would only want solid 24K stuff, no matter how what the design was.
My family isn't from a country that had a disaster like that (all too common in the 20th century, let's hope the 21st is a bit better), but we are from a country where the women's jewelry is their savings account. People gift girls with gold and silver jewelry from when they are young (few precious stones, no diamonds) and then you have the bracelets and earrings and rings that belong to just you, not your husband, to pawn or sell in times of poverty. and you buy it back when you're doing better again.
I don't operate like that now, we have savings and stocks and bonds and a 401K and a home with equity--but I can't get over the mindset when buying jewelry. I can't BEAR to pay markup for a 'design', no matter how pretty, especially not a mass-produced, machine made design like the ones at Tiffany. I want as high carat gold and as high carat silver as possible. I have only gotten into diamonds recently, because they do resell for nothing usually don't they. I got a couple with the best certs (AGS) and hope I'd get SOMETHING back for them if I had to resell, and I've since drifted over to buying mostly from pawnshops, on the theory that if I paid nothing much for them, it won't be too upsetting to have to re-sell diamonds back for less than nothing (quite often they don't even count diamonds in the price when they buy scrap jewelry back--just weigh the gold and calculate from there).
I also really have trouble forking out $$ for a handbag (which makes me strange on this forum, I know). I have a couple of coach bags, because I can see that they are made of fine leather and nicely sewn--I can't bear to pay for any kind of canvas bag, no matter what its treated with or anybody's monogram--it just seems to me to have no intrinsic value at all.
I saved enough money several times for a monogram handbag (won't mention a specific brand name)--but when push came to shove, I bought 22k jewelry with the money instead.
It's a different point of view of I know.
Y'all can start throwing the stones now.
My family isn't from a country that had a disaster like that (all too common in the 20th century, let's hope the 21st is a bit better), but we are from a country where the women's jewelry is their savings account. People gift girls with gold and silver jewelry from when they are young (few precious stones, no diamonds) and then you have the bracelets and earrings and rings that belong to just you, not your husband, to pawn or sell in times of poverty. and you buy it back when you're doing better again.
I don't operate like that now, we have savings and stocks and bonds and a 401K and a home with equity--but I can't get over the mindset when buying jewelry. I can't BEAR to pay markup for a 'design', no matter how pretty, especially not a mass-produced, machine made design like the ones at Tiffany. I want as high carat gold and as high carat silver as possible. I have only gotten into diamonds recently, because they do resell for nothing usually don't they. I got a couple with the best certs (AGS) and hope I'd get SOMETHING back for them if I had to resell, and I've since drifted over to buying mostly from pawnshops, on the theory that if I paid nothing much for them, it won't be too upsetting to have to re-sell diamonds back for less than nothing (quite often they don't even count diamonds in the price when they buy scrap jewelry back--just weigh the gold and calculate from there).
I also really have trouble forking out $$ for a handbag (which makes me strange on this forum, I know). I have a couple of coach bags, because I can see that they are made of fine leather and nicely sewn--I can't bear to pay for any kind of canvas bag, no matter what its treated with or anybody's monogram--it just seems to me to have no intrinsic value at all.
I saved enough money several times for a monogram handbag (won't mention a specific brand name)--but when push came to shove, I bought 22k jewelry with the money instead.
It's a different point of view of I know.
Y'all can start throwing the stones now.