And I lean towards, subject to a true health risk (like your nose is going to fall off) that doesn’t involve subjective views on beauty or aging, let the person decide how they wish to present themselves to the world.
ETA: it is really interesting, right? We give women over 50 such a narrow window. Don’t try to look too young! If you must be sexy, do it in an “appropriate way”. And then, on the flip side, society takes people like Kelly McGillis to task. Lose weight! Don’t let your hair go grey! Where has your femininity gone?
It’s a real vortex. How can a person possibly feel good about themselves?