Is this stack “basic”

[880]

Comments from mothers or daughters or both can cause us to overthink 😂

You love your stunning iconic choices; and, that’s all that matters

 

[foxgal]

So, maybe her definition of basic requires more info:

1) she said all of the bracelets are plain gold. She suggested a colored van cleef to break it up (even though VCA is a well known designer brand)

2) she thinks I need to mix some larger non designers in there. The chain is a sentimental heirloom but she thinks those type of non designers items need to be mixed in and have more presence

3) maybe some mixed metal


I think it is the combo of too much uniformity (all rose gold) coupled with a few very obvious designers is resulting in this basic definition

Well, unless you plan to remove something from your stack, adding mixed metals or a colored VCA means your stack is going to get even larger...not sure if that's what you want? Personally I think having them all the same metal is nice...sometimes mixing metals can look great, but sometimes it can look just really off or forced or higgledy-piggly. Also depends on the rest of your jewelry and if it is uniform or mixed?

It's nice to be able to discuss fashion and design with your daughter, but also don't let it bother you too much if you having differing opinions!

 

[Kabuki]

“I like funky jewelry. I like unique pieces.” This stack is about as far away from funky and unique as you can get.

 

[chareen]

So, maybe her definition of basic requires more info:

1) she said all of the bracelets are plain gold. She suggested a colored van cleef to break it up (even though VCA is a well known designer brand)

2) she thinks I need to mix some larger non designers in there. The chain is a sentimental heirloom but she thinks those type of non designers items need to be mixed in and have more presence

3) maybe some mixed metal


I think it is the combo of too much uniformity (all rose gold) coupled with a few very obvious designers is resulting in this basic definition

Thank you for asking! I figured as much. If her Instagram algorithm is like mine, she’ll see bracelets stacks like damselinjewelry



I’ve seen an SA with an arm full of YG bracelets that are unbranded. I mean her bracelets go from her wrist to mid arm - that many. She loves her stack and says she gets compliments all the time. Echoing what others have said here, wear what makes you happy. 😊

 

[duna]

Basic isn't the word I'd use. But I just don't see how these bracelets would actually wear in reality when you're moving around normally: surely they'd bunch together and lose the separation shown in these pics. Then to me it would look like a jumble vs. appreciating the distinctiveness of the elements.

That Bulgari is a killer on its own, and for it to be lost in a sea of random gold is kind of a shame. I'd rather see it with maybe with one other piece. like the Love.

As always, personal taste is the point!

I agree with this: I would wear the Serpenti on it's own, the other bracelets are not my cup of tea, but it's JMHO! Wear what you like and makes you happy.

 

[N_Tonks]

Okay, so posting this in the jewelry thread vs the Bulgari thread because I want unbiased feedback.

This is my stack. I just bought the Bulgari serpenti seen here in the photo. I like funky jewelry. I like unique pieces. My favorite earrings of all time are by Anita Ko and are large gold and diamond safety pins. I like different.

My daughter told me the stack is basic and “instagram cute”. I don’t want to look like everyone else but I also LOVE snakes.

Does this stack look cliche? Does it seem boring? Predictable? Something more about money and status than true style? Brutal honesty only.

I understand what it is to hear an opinion and rethink something.

However, I would point out that “basic” should be distinguished from “classic,” and that perhaps the younger generation does not make this particular distinction. Also, items that are seen all the time in one’s instagram algorithm are absolutely not seen the same way in real life. When was the last time you saw any of those bracelets on an arm in real life? (And yes, I realize that is going to differ depending on where you live).

If you like it, wear it and enjoy. It’s for you and no one else. While we see photos of those particular bracelets all the time, I don’t know that I have seen your combination before, and it is beautiful!

 

[Christofle]

“I like funky jewelry. I like unique pieces.” This stack is about as far away from funky and unique as you can get.

The perlée is pretty unique in a sea of motifs 👌