Congratulations on your weight-loss! Being healthy isn't easy but the payoff is amazing! No, you are never too old for something you love! We just make things work better. The Selma is a classy bag, and the studs give it an edgy look. It's a good balance! Sometimes I stare at a bag because I need glasses, but I DON'T ogle, that's so rude! Other times I'm figuring out the style or of its real! If I saw a studded Selma, I would be all over it!!