Hi, I'm thinking about getting a dark brown coach bag. I'm trying to decide between the gallery tote and shoulder tote. I have a 19 month old so I will be carrying a diapees and wipees, sippy cup and snacks along with my stuff: phone, make up case, wallet, wristlet and coin purse. I like the gallery tote except it has suede on the bottom, I don't know if the metal feet give enough protection when it's placed on the floor. However, i'm afraid the shoulder tote may be too big for an everyday bag but on the other hand the strap appears more comfortable. What to do???