Is a Rolex diamond bezel too flashy?

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I’m asking specifically for myself as a woman in her early 20’s. I’m not sure if I should wait until I’m older to have it as an aspirational piece. I’ve recently requested this exact watch without the diamond bezel (fluted instead) from my local AD. Some time ago one with the diamond bezel came in and I went in to see it. It was SO beautiful, but it was also a lot flashier than I had initially expected it to be. Ultimately I had decided to pass on the diamonds. Now I’m wondering if I should consider the diamonds? I like this configuration both ways (I really do like the fluted bezel too!)… I also don’t want to change my mind too many times with the AD. There are just so many choices. The picture is from the time I tried on the one with the diamonds. It’s beautiful, but I think I hesitate 1) because I want to be able to wear it everyday and 2) because in a way it feels like something someone who is more established/successful should be wearing, rather than a student like me. I’d appreciate all advice and thoughts!

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Ya… no. Lol

Depends on your vibe imo.
I like fine jewelry but a diamond dial isn’t low key enough for me for a daily wear.

Just deleted the rest of my response, lol


You’re young, you may want a few more watches eventually?
I’d start with a daily wear. I lucked out and picked a super versatile Rolex for me in my early 30s. It’s the SS oyster perpetual; I chose it because from far away no one recognized it as Rolex. I opted for the fluted bezel (more quietly Rolex than Jubilee bracelet) to prevent wear better than a smooth bezel.) I love diamonds so I chose diamond markers.

Now that I’m older, I’d add a watch with a Diamond bezel, but it wouldn’t have served me well before now.
 
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pinkmilq said:
I’m asking specifically for myself as a woman in her early 20’s. I’m not sure if I should wait until I’m older to have it as an aspirational piece. I’ve recently requested this exact watch without the diamond bezel (fluted instead) from my local AD. Some time ago one with the diamond bezel came in and I went in to see it. It was SO beautiful, but it was also a lot flashier than I had initially expected it to be. Ultimately I had decided to pass on the diamonds. Now I’m wondering if I should consider the diamonds? I like this configuration both ways (I really do like the fluted bezel too!)… I also don’t want to change my mind too many times with the AD. There are just so many choices. The picture is from the time I tried on the one with the diamonds. It’s beautiful, but I think I hesitate 1) because I want to be able to wear it everyday and 2) because in a way it feels like something someone who is more established/successful should be wearing, rather than a student like me. I’d appreciate all advice and thoughts!

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I’m not fond of these choices in one configuration (two tone, diamond bezel, diamond dial, and mother pearl face). This in my opinion is too much because each one is flashy on its own so together it’s just Over the top. This watch is looks fancy to me. If you’re set on Diamond bezel maybe the face should be more plain. Good luck deciding.
 
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I considered a similar configuration for my first Rolex and, like you, while it was certainly exquisite, I felt it was just too much for my every day lifestyle. Still happy with my decision, even after purchasing a second Rolex for everyday wear. I bling them up with diamond tennis bracelets when the occasion calls for it. And I never wear a watch for black tie or formal occasions anyway. That said, your everyday lifestyle might be vastly different than mine, but given your hesitation I think you made the right decision to hold out for the fluted bezel.
 
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It's a gorgeous watch. And with what I have now, I'd probably get it.
I have a very subtle IWC and a Two-toned panthere, both great for everyday with the panthere being a little more elevated and dressy (but not particularly decorated or flashy). So it would be something I do not have. And I do diamonds lol.

I do think it is flashy and if I had one it would not be a daily wear watch. I would probably only wear it for special occasions.

I also think because it is a Rolex it is that much more flashier.
Certain brands like Rolex and Cartier are easily recognizable by the general public and can attract unwanted attention or gossip.
Other brands like Piaget, Constantine, AP, PP, surprisingly are not easily recognized by most people. (of course, us on the forum are a different breed :biggrin:)
If you got a two-toned diamond bezel of another brand, it would still be flashy but probably does not have the ostentatious social presence that a Rolex has in today's day and age.

FYI: I am not saying any other diamond watch will attract less attention or be less likely to be stolen etc., it still will attract attention and have that risk, but it just won't have that kind of connotation that a Rolex has. I asked my husband what he thought and he said: hands down yes, very flashy, but not because it has gold and diamonds, but because it is a Rolex. It tells people I have money.
 
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I agree with poster #4 who said it is too much in this combination. This is just a personal opinion on what I like in my Rolex watch. I do love a diamond bezel though.

As for age - it depends. If you move in a world where it is normative lifestyle wise to wear a watch like this then you won’t stand out. But if you are a university student who is saving every penny in order to acquire this and you live in student housing, take public transit because you can’t afford your own car and sacrifice deeply in other aspects to acquire this watch then I personally would think there is a mismatch in priorities and the potential message you are sending into the world. I might get flamed for writing this but it is just what I think for your consideration.
 
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It depends on your lifestyle, where you are, etc., but in most cases, I do think it'll grab others' attention, both positively and negatively. If you love it and are alright with that, then get it; otherwise, I'd opt for something else.
 
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You are a student on campus & more likely than not, the watch will attract some attention.
I don't think that I would want to be calling attention to myself wearing that watch but that
is your decision. Just think it through before you go through with the purchase
I would look at other high end end watches that perhaps don't have diamonds & go from there
Out of curiosity, are there students that wear this kind of watch on campus?
 
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