An she admitted in her book, she used him for everything she could get out of it. Unlike Holly, who worshipped Hef for years and now is basically calling him the devil.
I never read Kendras book I remember her saying that Hef was her Hero (besides all her family members and her dogs)..I guess Kendra worshipped him too in a way. I think all the girls treated him like a king and acted like he was a king.