Have a look at the Jypsiere too. You can see it on hermes.com, i believe. If the ever-popular neutral ‘etoupe’ doesn’t sing to you, you may like it in the classic Hermes neutral: ‘gold’ - which is a warm tan color, or even in one of the deep blues...
If you try a Lindy, I have always liked it in ‘parchment’ - a pale color sooo pretty!
Do you like the Kelly bag? If you prefer not to carry a structured bag, you can look for a “relax” I think it’s called. Anyway, lots of ladies like to carry their Kelly bags with the shoulder strap that now comes with it.
Definitely follow pursecrzy’s advice and spend some time on the reference threads. Then when you go into an Hermes boutique, don’t be shy to try on a few different styles.
Welcome to the H side and I must say it is fun, as you state in your signature, to help one another find a bag!
p.s. re: the Massai: at your height you can carry off the larger size well I’m sure. That style is a LOT of leather, just so you know.