You can't go wrong with either boy bags. Colors are all neutral & gorgeous. In these photos, the lighter boy bag catches my eyes more maybe because of your dark color outfit. I would ask myself what kind of hardware I prefer. Good luck!!
Thank you @Lunie that’s exactly what makes it harder for me. Loving these colors so much! I am liking the shiny hardware but am unsure if it’s going to attract scratches? The brushed hold hardware also looks a bit less eye-catching / under the radar?