THANKS for the continued input on this. It's really helping me think.
I bought a Phillip Lim Pashli mini. I live in "fashion hell" and still get a lot of compliments!
ROFL! On "fashion hell"!!! Unfortunately, I live in "fashion backwater" so I could carry a ziplock bag painted in fingernail polish and no one would notice. But that also means I get zero inspiration from others and I have to shop when I travel. 😢 I like the Pashli but the zippers plus the metallic made it a little busier than I wanted. I think your fuchsia would be gorgeous!
I got this last year and I wore it so much

This bag from Alexander Wang Rockie got the most compliment from all the bag I own
I really like this bag! It was on my original consideration list but I wasn't sure about color. Is it more pewter or true silver?
Would this Dior be any good for you?
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the Dior but the price is too high for what I want to spend on this bag right now.
Here is where I am on this so far. The pictures, input and soul searching helped me realize that for right now I want a bag I can wear in non professional settings. That will allow this bag have a little "edge." With that...
I decided that I love the Sac du Jour but don't want it in silver. I plan to "save" that bag for a different color and in a slightly larger size. Perhaps a navy or burgundy that I can wear professionally and nice casual.
I bought the Givenchy Antigona. It's gorgeous. I'm just not sure it's $1600 gorgeous. LOL! So I'm thinking about it during my return period.
I think I may have to satisfy this need with two bags. One in silver that is has defined construction and is a teeny bit more "dressy". The other in silver or pewter that is unconstructed, more edgy and casual.
I know for some of you the idea of owning one silver bag (let alone TWO!) is crazy. But my silver bag will get a lot of wear and is very much needed in my wardrobe. 😀 So please keep the suggestions coming. They are so helpful!!!