I am on the same hunt, and I have tried lots of rings over many years. I’ve come to realize I need a band that is comfortable and does not protrude too much but is sufficiently blingy. I chose the trinity ring for you because it looks great on you. However I don’t think the rings you tried were a fair comparison because most of the VCA rings were not your size and I think the correct size makes all the difference. If the single row perlee ring were the right size I would have probably chosen that one for you (also cause that is what I want). I would want a true band rather than a trinity ring, for a stand in for an ering. I hope it feels comfortable and actually fits the bill for what you want.