Hi all,
I’m very lucky to be receiving a VCA from a friend but I can’t choose which one for the life of me! Currently between the Onyx 5 motif vintage bracelet and the rose gold 6 motif sweet bracelet. I don’t live close to a boutique or retailer so I have to go off of photos.
Onyx pros:
- I already have an Onyx vintage pendant so they’ll match nicely!
Cons:
- I have tiny (13 cm/5 inch) wrists, and even w/ links removed, I’m worried about the motifs “overpowering” my small wrist. While I think VCA is typically pretty subtle, I go to a school where the design is common and known; I am intending on frequent wear (cost per wear and that hefty price tag!!) and if the motif is too big on me, I would hate for it to look super flashy, in your face-expensive, especially paired w/ my pendant. I’ve attached a picture of my vintage pendant on my wrist so you can see—it seems like just one motif already takes up all of my wrist LOL.
- Dislike that I’d have to take it on and off being Onyx. Removing my necklace for showering isn’t a big deal but clasp bracelets are annoying LOL.
Now for the Sweet!
Pros:
- biggest pro: all gold, so I could put it on and rarely take it off, I hate babying my jewelry.
- Solves the flashiness issue, lol.
Cons:
- It seems at first like the Sweet solves my problems of lack of subtlety...but then I worry that it’s TOO small!! (Wish there was an in between, lol.) As much as I fear being overly flashy I also fear having a friend spend a ton on a piece that I might be underwhelmed by later, you know?
- I also feel that rose gold A. has a tendency to blend into my skin and B. will not match the rest of my jewelry well—I pretty much only wear yellow gold and am not sure how mixed metals might look.
I am SO conflicted. For matching reasons I lean towards the Vintage; for material durability I lean towards the Sweet. But then I’m like, maybe taking Vintage off for the shower isn’t as big a deal as you think it is. Lol
Please help...and let me know what you think of the vintage on my wrist! Thanks in advance

I’m very lucky to be receiving a VCA from a friend but I can’t choose which one for the life of me! Currently between the Onyx 5 motif vintage bracelet and the rose gold 6 motif sweet bracelet. I don’t live close to a boutique or retailer so I have to go off of photos.
Onyx pros:
- I already have an Onyx vintage pendant so they’ll match nicely!
Cons:
- I have tiny (13 cm/5 inch) wrists, and even w/ links removed, I’m worried about the motifs “overpowering” my small wrist. While I think VCA is typically pretty subtle, I go to a school where the design is common and known; I am intending on frequent wear (cost per wear and that hefty price tag!!) and if the motif is too big on me, I would hate for it to look super flashy, in your face-expensive, especially paired w/ my pendant. I’ve attached a picture of my vintage pendant on my wrist so you can see—it seems like just one motif already takes up all of my wrist LOL.
- Dislike that I’d have to take it on and off being Onyx. Removing my necklace for showering isn’t a big deal but clasp bracelets are annoying LOL.
Now for the Sweet!
Pros:
- biggest pro: all gold, so I could put it on and rarely take it off, I hate babying my jewelry.
- Solves the flashiness issue, lol.
Cons:
- It seems at first like the Sweet solves my problems of lack of subtlety...but then I worry that it’s TOO small!! (Wish there was an in between, lol.) As much as I fear being overly flashy I also fear having a friend spend a ton on a piece that I might be underwhelmed by later, you know?
- I also feel that rose gold A. has a tendency to blend into my skin and B. will not match the rest of my jewelry well—I pretty much only wear yellow gold and am not sure how mixed metals might look.
I am SO conflicted. For matching reasons I lean towards the Vintage; for material durability I lean towards the Sweet. But then I’m like, maybe taking Vintage off for the shower isn’t as big a deal as you think it is. Lol
Please help...and let me know what you think of the vintage on my wrist! Thanks in advance

