Having the same ring as your friend eqtiquette

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I really think you're overthinking it. Get what you want and what makes you happy.

Also it almost sounds like your robbery was planned by someone. How else would they discover your secondary residence?
 
I really think you're overthinking it. Get what you want and what makes you happy.

Also it almost sounds like your robbery was planned by someone. How else would they discover your secondary residence?

The first robbery: police arrested the robber but all of our stuff was gone.

The second robbery: robber was unknown. We does not think it was planned. Our insurance finally paid us on the weekend after 1 year later. Gosh! It took them forever.
 
wow, did it really take your insurance company a year to send you a check? that's insane.

i lost my original e-ring a year and a half after we were married and our insurance company (allstate at the time) sent us a check for the replacement a few weeks later. maybe since it was a robbery and still under investigation it's something more complex, idk, but a year seems so crazy! i would go nuts waiting that long.
 
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