i think you are a pendant girl! my vote is for the large pendant - yg or wg. you do have your sparkly cartier orchid pendant so maybe the yg? can't wait for you to try them on and have a reaction to the pieces. the ring would tie nicely with the pendant. your victoria earrings would go very nicely with the marquis theme. don't sell the vca until you are 100% sure because it's vca pave!!!