Etain honestly varies so much depending on the shipment. The recent Etain has been pretty true gray. Vert amande is also not a bad alternative. I personally am anti black bag. I pick H for the color. Black to me is timeless but also boring. H has so many great neutrals to pick from.
Thank you for saying the etain is great this season. I might add that one to my list then. It's more of a true grey you say? So no brown undertone?