I like them both on you, but prefer the one w/o diamonds. Especially if you wear it everyday with your love both work together. I've tried on both w and w/o diamonds over the years. For me, the diamonds has a more feminine look based on the shape of my wrist (more soft, fleshy and round) and skin tone. I prefer the plain for every day and I like it's under the radar. On you, I like the look, not so much on me. I was dead set on the Tiffany T medium in silver. I was told by SA that it tarnishes easily and she tried to "persuade" me into the gold. The Gold Tiffany is $5K rang the , price of JUC w/o diamonds. I've decided to save, save and save for the diamonds as I don't wear Cartier jewelry dialy.