this thread may have some ideas
Happy Wednesday..... I hope I am not out of line for posting this question here...as I wasn't sure how and where I can ask a question regarding 2 different designers. So I thought I would try to post here as well as on the Hermes forum. Please let me know if I should post this question...
forum.purseblog.com
Many members here (like
@Notorious Pink) use the 28 kelly as a casual evening bag. I tend not to bc I do think the 28K is a good day bag. (I actually think Hermes bags give off a daytime vibe, but I keep meaning to try to find a kelly Cut or medor). But, more importantly, my evenings are simple restaurants where the bag has to share my seat (and I’m a bit too chunky to do that comfortably with a 28 sellier

. Here is a thread discussing where members use their 28‘s.
https://forum.purseblog.com/threads/second-kelly-or-second-birkin.1042762/ (There are many threads like this)
Lately, for day or night, I’ve been using my crossbody chanel so black mini chevron reissue or Hermes mini Della cavalleria (crossbody, outside pocket, inside pocket) and room for card case, IPhone, sanitizer, WF collapsible bag and mask. I have a craie DC in epsom and I’m thinking of gettting another one. At lunch. I spilled tiramisu on the DC flap, and it just WIPED off.

Tonight I used a TPM Evelyne for just a card case and phone. When traveling, I use a mini
Loewe puzzle or a men’s ergonomic crossbody Dior saddle (no hardware). those simple cross body bags can hang on my person or sit on my lap with a napkin over them.
I don’t have a 25 kelly but I do have a croc chaine d’ancre bag that kind of serves that purpose. I almost never wear it. I’m thinking about a 25 Birkin simply bc I favor the Birkin a bit more, and bc I’m part of the group of TPFers that firmly belive that mini bags can make your butt look larger. . .
+1 with @hermesgeek’s concise explanation on opening and closing
re the query on how long to get a 28 or 25, presumably it takes much longer to get a 25, but IMO it depends on your relationship with your SA and your location. In some parts of the world, pre spend is king. In NYC currently, bags are scarce, but there are exceptions.