The Renaissance line is beautiful! Yes, a 3 xl is super huge! I'd go with the 2xl.I have an 8" wrist and want to invest in the DY Renaissance cuff. I too read the size chart on the DY website which indicates a size 3 XL for my 8" wrist. I'm concerned it'll be huge and it's non-returnable since it will be a custom order. Appreciate all suggestions!