That's wonderful! I'm glad I could help. I tried the Madwell tote as well and it was way too stiff for me. Also, the few they had in stock all had scratches on them. I find the Cuyana leather to be much, much softer/better. Granted, the quality/craftsmanship of the Hermes DS is hard to beat. However, if I had discovered Cuyana sooner I may have purchased one instead of the DS and put that money towards a different Hermes bag. I get a lot of use out of my DS, but I did waiver initially because it is very expensive for a simple tote bag. The Cuyana leather is thinner and of course it doesn't have the reversible leather lining, but for the price point, it is definitely worth the money! I hope you get your bag soon
Oh, and I forgot to ask which color you chose? The leather on my stone bag is thicker than my caramel bag, but the caramel leather is softer. Also, the stone holds its shape better while the caramel is more smooshy.