Confessions of a Handbag Addict

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Um, seriously? A sharing thread and no pictures? Por shame! #IllFixThis

- What bag do you know you overspent for? Used Hermes Bolide in Rouge H. I tried my best-est to talk the seller down (shop in New York City), but they did. not. budge. Smh. I love the bag, got it nice and spa cleaned and everything, but, it definitely could have been gotten for about $1500 less than I bought. Yeesh!

- What bag should you probably sell/get rid of but still haven't? : I'm only wondering if I should offload my Bayswater. Only because I have a YSL Tote. I love both, but do I need both? It's one of those Maria Kondo things.

- What bag are you embarrassed to admit you like? No embarrassments here if I can think off the top of my head.

- What bag would you buy if you knew you could use it money/fashion not an issue? Anything Gucci! Anything Gucci! Anything Gucci! Anything Gucci!

- What bag did you buy, then realize it doesn't work?
The last bag I purchased that didn't work was the LV Turenne PM. I needed a bag that could go on errands with me, but still be a little dressy-casual. But the vachetta was irritating to me .
Also, the bag I love to miss is the LV Speedy Empreinte. No matter how much I love the fancy bags, my lifestyle is NOT fancy. I look and feel like a doofus when I walk out with these blingy bags in places that are not bling. I'm not bling. It's just weird. I need bags that flow with my "flow".

- What is your worst handbag mistake (i.e ink, stain, scratch.....)? I've had a couple of ink issues. No big disasters as of yet though.

Photos: Overpaid for used Beautiful Bolide, no longer mine Turenne, no longer mine Empreinte, and no longer mine Chanel mini (just cuz it's gorgeous!)
Thanks for adding the eye candy! Your Bolide is TDF! :loveeyes:

And you're cracking me up on the anything Gucci. :lol: But, I agree. Gucci is amazing! Def one of my favorite 3 brands.

Were you able to get your money out of the bags that you feel you overpaid for but sold?

PS - I'm the yin to your yang. I love bling. I have to restrain my blingy tendencies. I refuse to be Ms. Tacky McOverdone. :lol:
 
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Thanks for adding the eye candy! Your Bolide is TDF! :loveeyes:

And you're cracking me up on the anything Gucci. :lol: But, I agree. Gucci is amazing! Def one of my favorite 3 brands.

Were you able to get your money out of the bags that you feel you overpaid for but sold?

PS - I'm the yin to your yang. I love bling. I have to restrain my blingy tendencies. I refuse to be Ms. Tacky McOverdone. :lol:
Lol, I just saw your small print! Let's see. I sold my Turenne PM on Fashionphile and you know how that goes. They act like your stuff was dragged in from under a truck 10 years ago sometimes, and then price it as if it just came off the runway. The others were very long ago. Never retail price though. And they were at the beginning of my purse habit so I had to learn a lot of things. Like before I was doing eBay for 100% of my offloading whereas now it's about 10%. It's just safer and less hassle. I'm like a semi-enthusiast/sometimes professional photographer, never sold fake stuff, and people were making me resend photos of "the corner of that Chanel that looks crooked and like you're trying to hide it!" What? Um...no.
 
- What bag do you know you overspent for?
Ooooh, I'm a deal meister who tries to underpay for my bags. LOL! But there are two bags that could fit this category.

The first is a Prada calfskin convertible satchel I bought for full price in Las Vegas. It fit all my criteria for my perfect black work bag and I loved how it looked. But, it was terribly heavy because of the heavy lock on the zipper, etc.

Unfortunately, Prada sinks in value. So, I lost money selling an almost new bag. I should have known better than to ever pay full price for Prada. But, gosh, even uploading this photo, I still love this bag. :loveeyes:
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The second is another super rare time I paid full price - silver microcannage Dior Diorama. But I reeeeealy wanted this bag and I didn't want it preloved. So I pounced on it when I was on vacay in Paris. But, I absolutely adore it and wear it fairly often. So I don't feel bad about it one bit.
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- What bag should I sell / get rid of but I haven't. The ones I never reach for anymore. An older Coach, Kate Spade and MK bag. They'll be gone by year end.

- What bag are you embarrassed to admit I like? There isn't one. If I love it and I have a use for it. I buy it. LOL!

- What bag would I buy if I knew I could use it money/ fashion not an issue? As I mentioned, if I love a bag and I have a use for it, I buy it. :amuse: Maybe the only thing that could qualify is Gucci's velvet bags and to a lesser extent the nubuck bags. Those are insanely beautiful. The color saturation is breathtaking. But I worry the velvet will look worn over time and that the nubuck will get grungy. So I only have one Gucci nubuck bag and am contemplating when to take the plunge again.
Here are just a few of the Gucci velvet / nubuck bags that inspire my bag lust. (Photos from Google)IMG_8963.JPGIMG_8964.JPGIMG_8966.JPGIMG_8967.JPGIMG_8968.JPG
- What is your worst handbag mistake (i.e. ink, stain, scratch)
I was traveling and rushing to get to my next destination. So, I threw things everywhere without thinking. In so doing, I put my tube of toothpaste in my handbag (?????) and forgot about it. I arrived at my destination hours later with toothpaste all over the bottom of a bag with suede lining. I almost went to see my maker! :panic:I sent the bag off to be cleaned - luckily it's fine. But, it took years off my life. :lol:
 
Overspent: I used to buy all my bags brand new. I overspent and paid full retail for a balenciaga city which I loved for about a year until I realized the utility of buying preloved.

Should sell: my Celine tote. Never use it.

Embarrassed to like: I still love my bals and Prada! No matter how maligned they can be, I love their quality and how they work well with my lifestyle.

Didn't work out: celine totes. Disappointed with celine quality in general.

Mistake: buying one bag per brand regardless of whether I liked them. I thought to build my collection, all brands had to be represented. Wasted a lot of money buying bags that didn't work for me and my lifestyle.
 
I feel like my answers might be dull compared to some! This is an interesting thread!

- What bag do you know you overspent for?

Oh, this is tough. I mean, if I sit and think about it objectively I think it is crazy insane how much my LVs cost. I mean, they are just handbags! To carry my s#!t! They do not do any better of a job than my bags that cost a fraction of the price. However, I also love them and they feel special to me, and that is just what they cost - they don't go on sale, so unless I was willing to take risk of finding on secondhand market with all the fakes, and the often HIGHER than retail final prices from reputable secondhand vendors for in demand items, well, that is what they cost. I love them and use them so I still don't feel I "overspent". They will be mine forever.

I think I would have to say for me the ones that fall in this category then are the bags that even though I bought on sale/at discount, I did/do not use enough. Their CPW ended up very high by time I parted with them (I donate rather than sell). I feel better spending $2,000 on a bag I wear 1,000 times versus one I spend $200 and wear...twice. So, I think there are probably a couple MKs and a couple KSs I could put in here, all around $200-$250 CAD, but that is still $200-$250 CAD that could have gone towards a bag I wore/wear more or something else entirely. The two in next answer are probably are ones that I think I also overspent for based on anticipated future CPW, even though they weren't all that much relatively.

Also, I am thinking of a couple "could have been regrets" here. I have been lucky in that the one Coach bag I DID pay FP for (an Olive Rogue) actually went on sale within the 14-day adjustment period, if I had missed by a day I might have added that one in there too...though I just adore all my Coach 1941 bags and I could justify paying FP; I would not feel great if I could have saved 50% a week later and could not get that credit.

- What bag should you probably sell/get rid of but still haven't? :

Up to a couple of weeks ago I would have said the three RM Nikkis I had hanging out in storage since January...but I finally gave them to a coworker last week.

So now a couple immediately came to mind. I should probably get rid of this little Cole Haan crossbody I got on clearance. It was like $85 CAD and the leather is sooo soft and smushy, but I just don't use it; I reach for other crossbodies instead. I do really like how nice the leather is, and how under the radar it is though. I am debating cutting the strap on it (which is not detachable)/making a wrist strap and just using it as a pouch/clutch; but it is a bit heavy to be a pouch. I feel bad but I just have not been able to make it work in my life...but I want to! Google image as I don't have pictures on here:

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This is the other one, a Kate Spade Small Hayden in Crisp Linen. I have barely carried it, but it is also new so I am not quite ready to part with it. It is so cute & summeey, but I am not using it, and I think I need to take my own advice I give to others and let it go. I just find when I want to carry this particular style, I reach for its twin (I have it in black). I had wanted the black one forever to have a small structured black bag, and bought it when it went on sale as it was being discontinued....this one was on sale at same time and so I got it as well. The black one gets worn, but this one I just don't reach for. If I want to carry a small light coloured bag I tend to go for my Rogue 25 in Chalk. Another Google image, except mine does not have the white sides, it is all the middle colour:

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- What bag are you embarrassed to admit you like? : I don't really have anything here? One, I don't think I have any very unusual tastes, and two, I am long past the days of caring what people thought of my likes ;) There are bags I like but would not buy due to function, practicality, and not fitting into my own lifestyle, but I am not embarassed to like them!

- What bag did you buy, then realize it doesn't work? : Aside from the above two...I suppose my Iena MM? I just got it and I am selling to my sister who does want it, only time I have ever sold, so I won't lose money on it. It is a beautiful bag. Soft and comfy under arm, and straps are wider than NF straps, Outside pocket and interior pockets make it beautiful. But....I really wanted a true tote-style bag I could pack full, something more like my Longchamp, or Vince Camuto tote, and the Iena MM was just a bit too small - more larger shoulder bag for me than a tote. So Iena MM is being rehomed and now I have a new NF MM and loved it right away!

- What is your worst handbag mistake (i.e ink, stain, scratch.....)? None so far when it comes to damage and so on, knock on wood (or leather?). I just hate thinking how much I have spent on bags at times - I can afford it but I could have afforded other things too. My mistakes are really more related to impulse buys and how much I have lost learning the lessons of what works and what does not!
 
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What bag do you know you overspent on?
A Furla bag that looked amazing online but was actually cheap/outlet quality in real life. To be fair, it was on sale but I couldn't be bothered paying for return shipping so now I'm stuck with it!

What bag should you probably sell/get rid of but haven't?
Prada saffiano BN2274 tote. I did try to sell it once but had no luck!

What bag are you embarrassed to admit you like?
Gucci soho disco. I think it's gorgeous but most of my friends and family hate the tassel!

What bag did you buy but realized it doesn't work?
The Prada tote! I got talked into buying the medium sized one but I didn't realize how HEAVY it is. I also didn't realize how bad the quality was! It came with those awful gaps on the ends of the zippers, pinched/puckered leather on the seams and front of the bag and drooping leather over one of the feet!

What was your worst handbag mistake?
Putting my lunch in my bag knowing that it was full of sauce but didn't think to wrap it up in plastic. Walked 10 meters out the door and the bottom of my bag was dripping!
 
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- What bag do you know you overspent for? By Malene Birger Grinolas tote. Paid 220€ preloved; had I known what the quality is I wouldn't have paid 30€ for it. 20€ might have been the price I could/should've paid for something that lasted a month of use before starting to fall apart. The CS didn't exactly impress me either.
What bag should you probably sell/get rid of but still haven't? Anything that isn't getting enough use; mostly all lower end bags and anything Guess.
- What bag are you embarrassed to admit you like? I might be slightly embarassed - although probably more surprised - to admit a couple of things to myself; the fact that LV Neverfull in Damier print has started looking like something that I might carry one day. I thought I hated all LV canvas. Also, the LV Pochette Metis in Empreinte leather is scrummy; I thought I hated all things with visible branding. Apparently I don't.
- What bag would you buy if you knew you could use it money/fashion not an issue? Loewe Amazona in almost any color or a turquoise Hermés Evelyne.
- What bag did you buy, then realize it doesn't work? Mulberry Tillie, hands down. It broke my heart that our love didn't exactly get wind beneath its' wings. I loved the look but the bag was so impractical...it wasn't big enough to take to work, it wasn't small enough to use as an evening bag. For casual outings it was too fancy with its large (for my taste) HW. Traded it for an AW Rocco which I have used a lot.
- What is your worst handbag mistake (i.e ink, stain, scratch.....)? OMG. This one has yet to happen. I do have an old but lovely Boss satchel which got sprayed with Dr.Pepper twice within two days. The soda pop explosions happened inside the bag so no visible damage and the inside didn't sustain any permanent damage or stickiness either.
I avoid bags that aren't completely bomb proof; it seems to work for me. Tough leathers that won't scuff easily, minimal hardware for me to get scratches on etc.
 
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What bag do you know you overspent for? Probably my Loewe Small Hammock bag, but I sure love it.

- What bag should you probably sell/get rid of but still haven't? Where do I even start with this one??? I have a few Kate Spades that I know I'm over but can't find a way to get rid of them. I mean, I want to make SOME money from them, not just give them away. Same for some Rebecca Minkoff bags.

- What bag are you embarrassed to admit you like? None. I am not interested in what other people think so admitting to liking something like a bag is not embarrassing.

- What bag did you buy, then realize it doesn't work? No bag in specific, but probably clutches. I rarely carry so little that a clutch is enough.

- What is your worst handbag mistake (i.e ink, stain, scratch.....)? I carried a light cream-colored bag while wearing new jeans. The back of the bag was stained blue. It was saffiano so I was able to clean a lot of it but I can still see it.
 
I might be slightly embarassed - although probably more surprised - to admit a couple of things to myself; the fact that LV Neverfull in Damier print has started looking like something that I might carry one day. I thought I hated all LV canvas. Also, the LV Pochette Metis in Empreinte leather is scrummy; I thought I hated all things with visible branding. Apparently I don't.





- What is your worst handbag mistake (i.e ink, stain, scratch.....)? OMG. This one has yet to happen. I do have an old but lovely Boss satchel which got sprayed with Dr.Pepper twice within two days. The soda pop explosions happened inside the bag so no visible damage and the inside didn't sustain any permanent damage or stickiness either.
I avoid bags that aren't completely bomb proof; it seems to work for me. Tough leathers that won't scuff easily, minimal hardware for me to get scratches on etc.
OMG! This is me, too. I've always disliked canvas, the repeated logos, aggressive branding, etc. Now I'm softening to if for some bags. Never say never, I guess.:smile:
 
OMG! This is me, too. I've always disliked canvas, the repeated logos, aggressive branding, etc. Now I'm softening to if for some bags. Never say never, I guess.:smile:

Ha, I get this. I always thought I disliked excessive logo-branding. I resisted LV monogram forever thinking "why would anyone want to advertise a brand so much". I had a Speedy 30 in DE, and then later a Speedy B 30 in DE (the latter which I still have). But then I recently got the Pochette Metis...in Mono. And....the Reverse Mono. And LOVE them. Something about the Mono is just beautiful. I don't even think I would like the PM in DE (which was/is my go-to LV canvas otherwise) as it would look too fussy for the style (in my opinion). I am still not sure about a 'larger' bag in Mono...but um, I can't say that I didn't just recently order one just to look at it (I don't live near an LV store so this is how I "look"!).

I am somewhat surprised in myself, as I adore my leather bags - my Coach 1941 glovetanned leather bags are so scrumptious (yes, I could lick them). But ah, there is something about mono canvas. It took me 37/38 years to "get it", but now.... I get it.
 
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