Firstly, your new earrings are gorgeous!
Here is my tip--a few years ago I bought an antique pair of pearl drops, the "post" was not a typical cylindrical shape and had a sharp hook at the end to clip into the other part. I had a devil of a time getting those things in my ears, they would get swollen and red, so to deal with any possible tears or abrasions I used a bit of Neosporin to lube the weird posts and take care of any infection. That did the trick--no way was I going to give up on those babies.
Here is my tip--a few years ago I bought an antique pair of pearl drops, the "post" was not a typical cylindrical shape and had a sharp hook at the end to clip into the other part. I had a devil of a time getting those things in my ears, they would get swollen and red, so to deal with any possible tears or abrasions I used a bit of Neosporin to lube the weird posts and take care of any infection. That did the trick--no way was I going to give up on those babies.