You guys are reminding me, I didn't get a lot of jewelry when my kids were young. Young kids ARE expensive. Plus they pull on pearl necklaces and break them, get scratched by diamond rings and get in your jewelry box and make havoc.
I also didn't get push presents. My kids were my push presents.
However, as a child and teenager I was gifted with a lot of stuff (my grandmothers were very generous, my dad was VERY generous), I inherited various things--when my dad died, my mom gave me a lot of the stuff he gave her that she never liked. And as soon as hubby had money, he started to get me jewelry. but didn't like to give away before becasue it would hurt his feelings. It's hard to get me anything else! I'm allergic to cashmere, allergic to perfume, don't like chocolate-- so it's either flowers or jewelry. Jewelry tends to last longer.
I have all boys so hopefully will have granddaughters to leave some of this too, but meanwhile sometimes I give things to daughters of friends that I like. I do have one son who wears an earring.