Understood you well. But I personally cannot feel myself to be responsible for other people's jealousy and envy.
+1.
Especially if they really wanted to, they can have it as well. But their priorities are different, and that's none of my business. So their jealousy is on them.
$4000 is considered expensive for me. When I bought my flap, I was thinking that was way too much for a bag. Still bought it, but I don't want to cross that threshold again.