Are people really no longer wearing their Chanel bags because others (mostly strangers) stare at them and whisper?

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I stare at everyone carrying a Chanel but it’s not because I’m judging. It’s because I love looking at Chanel bags and admiring them just like when I’m carrying my own and I’m so giddy using it since I don’t use my bags everyday. I’m too OCD so my daily bag is my $38 Lululemon Belt Bag that my husband talks crap about on the regular for using while I have many stunning Chanel’s sitting on a shelf But it’s my daily use bag, I wouldn’t use my Chanel for grocery shopping and running errands. That’s just me. I would to want to wreck my bags lol.
 
I stare at everyone carrying a Chanel but it’s not because I’m judging. It’s because I love looking at Chanel bags and admiring them just like when I’m carrying my own and I’m so giddy using it since I don’t use my bags everyday. I’m too OCD so my daily bag is my $38 Lululemon Belt Bag that my husband talks crap about on the regular for using while I have many stunning Chanel’s sitting on a shelf But it’s my daily use bag, I wouldn’t use my Chanel for grocery shopping and running errands. That’s just me. I would to want to wreck my bags lol.
But you stare and look at other Chanels in a nice way. Just admiring other ppl's handbags, I get that.

But there are some ppl who stare in a menacing way. Like they are wounded and threatened by your expensive items. Have you ever been the target of extreme jealousy? I have. So I only wear my Chanels to locations with ppl where I feel comfortable and safe.
 
But you stare and look at other Chanels in a nice way. Just admiring other ppl's handbags, I get that.

But there are some ppl who stare in a menacing way. Like they are wounded and threatened by your expensive items. Have you ever been the target of extreme jealousy? I have. So I only wear my Chanels to locations with ppl where I feel comfortable and safe.
I totally am that woman that is like drooliny over Chanel or even a pretty color Hermes if I see it if I’m out and if I’m able, I will compliment someone on their bag or even their outfit. I never used to when I was younger but as I’m getting older, I have no issue complimenting strangers and it makes people feel good on their luxury item or outfit or even their hair, lol.

Oh yeah and with people, it’s like a “know your audience” type of thing when we go out lol. I mean for date nights to a nicer restaurant with friends, I will carry my nicer stuff but I wouldn’t carry them with all friends. Some friends I don’t carry my Chanel around and that’s just to not throw the luxury in their faces since they don’t buy or use it and one particular friend has the money but spends it how she chooses on other stuff but she will still make the comments. I just don’t want to hear it. We are going out for dinner with friends this wkd and I’m not sure if I’ll carry my CF to a nicer restaurant even though my friend knows but I think her husband will make a comment that I don’t care to hear.

I think women who buy and appreciate luxury items are more like us but can’t get away from haters.
 
I totally am that woman that is like drooliny over Chanel or even a pretty color Hermes if I see it if I’m out and if I’m able, I will compliment someone on their bag or even their outfit. I never used to when I was younger but as I’m getting older, I have no issue complimenting strangers and it makes people feel good on their luxury item or outfit or even their hair, lol.

Oh yeah and with people, it’s like a “know your audience” type of thing when we go out lol. I mean for date nights to a nicer restaurant with friends, I will carry my nicer stuff but I wouldn’t carry them with all friends. Some friends I don’t carry my Chanel around and that’s just to not throw the luxury in their faces since they don’t buy or use it and one particular friend has the money but spends it how she chooses on other stuff but she will still make the comments. I just don’t want to hear it. We are going out for dinner with friends this wkd and I’m not sure if I’ll carry my CF to a nicer restaurant even though my friend knows but I think her husband will make a comment that I don’t care to hear.

I think women who buy and appreciate luxury items are more like us but can’t get away from haters.
I'm the same way too. Now that I'm older, I also compliment ppl on their fashion. It's like a shared appreciation of what is visually pleasing. :smile:

RE: Your friend's husband? Yeah, we all know someone like that. :shocked::doh::shocked:
 
I get some stares at the gym if I have any designer bag with me. But I live in a country where the concept of “showing off“ is considered against the national… culture? norm?
Anyway, even when national consensus dictates staring and judging it doesn’t stop me. I used to carry a Harry Potter lunch box as a handbag when I was a teen. While also wearing cargo pants. People (other teenagers) did whisper cause I mean… it was an oddball outfit but I kept trucking.
The main thing that should stop anyone from wearing what makes them happy is wearing those things in places where you just make yourself a target for crime.
 
I'm not a Chanel owner here, but I have quite a few bags from LV, Givenchy, Celine, etc. and when it comes to this question my answer is ... who cares?

If I'm somewhere and someone is staring at my bag (which to be honest, I've never noticed), than so what? Unless I feel threatened for my safety than at the end of the day the person who is staring at me and what I have is their problem. I buy my bags for me and me alone so if someone out there wants to whisper comments or stare that's on them. I don't know them, they don't me and I just move on. Now, I can't say I've ever been in a situation where someone is blatantly staring at a bag of mine and commenting (I live in an area that's LV heavy so I don't think a majority of my bags are easily recognizable unless I'm in a different area of where I live), but if the "situation" were to arise I'd say to myself, well thank you for noticing my fabulous arm candy! :lol:

But I find this question pops up a lot and I said it before and I'll say it again ... who cares?! It's their problem! At the end of the day its a handbag, an accessory. Just live your life and enjoy it!
 
This really hit a nerve with me today, but first, and most importantly, I think it is crazy to judge others on what we choose to spend money on. That same person who judged your bag could of spent $500 on a bottle of wine at dinner last night, when it would of been what at a liquor store? When I got my first Chanel flap, using this one for this post, 10 years ago, I lived in a place where no one would bat an eye at it. I actually got it to elevate my post gym look because I turned a certain age and thought if I was going to do errands in gym clothes I should up my look, now that I was “old” We moved to a more casual area a short while ago and frankly if people see it, they probably think it’s fake. I do feel a little funny carrying it because in those 10 years it, and other of my bags, have become ridiculously priced. Sorry, my opinion not the people who see my bag, and what has changed about these bags? I know, different topic. So let’s go back to judgement. I also have handicap status, most times I don’t use it, but if I do I have actually had people say “you don’t look handicapped” and “are you using your mother’s placard”. When did it become appropriate to judge, and comment, on other’s material items, health, cars and so on? I find where I live now, and it’s a mix of people who have always lived here and others who move in tear down a house and build a new one that covers every piece of available land, to be very judgey and not afraid to let their comments fly. I think it’s a reflection on our country(USA)and makes me worry about the path we are headed down. Written as I sit outside for a couple minutes in air quality that is rated as unsafe as it’s ever been. But global warming is “fake”. Sorry, but I did say in the beginning this post hit a nerve today. I also will say carry what you love and what makes you feel good about yourself…as long as you are safe.
 
I think we are a group of people more focused on luxury bags than "general population", the reason lead me to believe that is, I just came back from a trip and also had stayed in a Grand Hyatt for a short period of time, in those resorts I stayed I never seen any women other than myself wore a luxury brand handbag (there was another woman was wearing a Gucci sunglasses), during the trip, the only time I saw a few women wearing luxury handbags were in shopping malls (saw 1 Chanel 22 mini, 1 Neverfull PM, several Neverfull MM) & in a tour (1 black Empreinte leather LV Multi Pochette Accessories) & in airports (1 look brand new LV Delightful GM mono possibly replaced leather otherwise can't be that brand new, several OM LV mono, DE Azur bags, 1 like new Neverfull GM mono) I also took one of my Chanels with me but didn't get chance to wear it. I saw more people wear luxury bags in where I live than in the trip.
 
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