My vote is for the ring you have, I think. I’m not sure what your own sense of personal style is but I could see the version of the Graduate ring you have lasting longer than the pinky ring version. Plus you already have it and know that you like it. I think the bigger carat weight and being able to wear it front and center gives it more “oomph!”Now I just need to decide if I want to keep this ring or return it for the pinky ring. I like the look of this ring on my middle finger. It is double the carat weight and a little more in cost. The pinky ring looks really cute too. Decisions, decisions...