I did not think I cared for Epsom, so it was not on my wish list. I started with chèvre, then sombrero leather, then togo, which happened to be from an extremely soft thin light batch. But I wanted a K28 sellier and when one came along in gris asphalt, palladium hw, I decided to go for it. I love my K32 sellier in sombrero, but I wanted a 28. It took some adjusting, but I can see the Epsom softening, and it really suits the bag. It would not hold its structure if it were Togo or a softer leather. Overall, it’s a stunning bag and I am glad I got it! The red Kelly sounds beautiful. I can’t imagine that you would not love it and wear it! And if in a year or two you find that you don’t, you can always sell it. But I think you might regret passing it up! It is more durable than some people lead you to believe.