I know, I used to wear them until they were literally falling apart. I'm happier now!No, I find it rather firm but maybe because it's not really broken in yet like a nice leather jacket that you've had forever!! Maybe I should use it more-I have only used it about 2-3 times since I got it. I remember the days when I'd buy one bag a year (maybe) and now it's like one bag (or more) a month!![]()