I agree it’s different for each of us, and I personally think a lot of it has to do with our personalities as well.
For me it’s not who you know, I don’t know anyone lol!
I mentioned not agreeing with the immediate stereotype of Chanel SAs being rude because every boutique I’ve visited (Vegas, Dallas, Cannes, etc…) I’ve always had great, friendly service. I wear sneaks and Vuori or t-shirt dresses everyday; I don’t go in dressed up.
I have a relatively friendly personality and a little confidence, I think it helps if you don’t go in scared to make eye contact or already carry the expectation they’re going to be snobby.
I just personally haven’t or don’t experience it so I can’t even come up with an example of rude/snobby SAs off the top of my head.
I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, just sharing my own experiences
For me it’s not who you know, I don’t know anyone lol!
I mentioned not agreeing with the immediate stereotype of Chanel SAs being rude because every boutique I’ve visited (Vegas, Dallas, Cannes, etc…) I’ve always had great, friendly service. I wear sneaks and Vuori or t-shirt dresses everyday; I don’t go in dressed up.
I have a relatively friendly personality and a little confidence, I think it helps if you don’t go in scared to make eye contact or already carry the expectation they’re going to be snobby.
I just personally haven’t or don’t experience it so I can’t even come up with an example of rude/snobby SAs off the top of my head.
I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, just sharing my own experiences

It’s probably different for all of us. agree with @lill_canele that it’s the people you know.
i get the best treatment at my local chanel, dior, brunello. I love my H SA, but Madison is general isn’t warm and fuzzy. Abroad, I think dior trains their SAs to greet and interact similarly, so very friendly. Chanel in London, Hermes in Italy were neutral.
At home or abroad, Bulgari and VCA are very nice, I assume, bc it is harder to sell luxury jewelry, IDK
i get the worst treatment at LV (I will now only go into the kiosk at Saks); Tiffany (I get ignored); and Cartier (though it was very different when I went with a friend who is a regular)
@Liberté , service, especially tailoring, is slow everywhere, lol.
ETA: a friend once asked DH and me to go to LV corporate to view furniture by appt. Totally different scenario. LV contacted us to ask if we wanted a ride (It’s a ten minute walk so no) and then sent us, unsolicited, the day after, a large custom three tiered box of huge LV petite fours. (I gave them away). This treatment was to coax prospective clients to be more inclined to buy a six figure designer collaboration table from their nomades collection. I was surprised that their furniture, in some cases, was more expensive than Hermes. But I don’t think the wide disparity of client experience reflects well on the brand.
i did once years ago, during the Stephen sprouse black and white graffiti collection have a very nice LV SA. He also sold me an LV raincoat, that LV refused to service in their aftercare. So that was the beginning and end of my RTW adventure there.