2021 Resolution: Shopping my own bag and SLG collection. Any one else?

[Sparkletastic]

NOVEMBER ACTIVITIES

1. Bags by Brand Showcase!

Each week, share photos of your bags from the specified brands. Choose a posed “beauty” shot or get your bags out and about in action shots!

We highlight 3 brands per week: 2 premier and 1 contemporary in alphabetical order as listed on tPF. Any brands not listed are showcased in our last week. Brands change to the next set each Sunday.

Our first brand week starts now - Sunday, Oct 31. Please share photos of bags from these brands:

• Bottega Venetta
• Burberry
• Alexander Wang

Tip: Grab your photos from last year in the 2020 resolution thread. Search your user name and the brand to find your photos.

2. Special Stories
Thanks @Claudia Herzog for the suggestion

Wear a bag that has a backstory involving a person, place, or opportunity for which you feel grateful.

 

[ksuromax]

Great pix, thank you for the eye candy @ksuromax . And also, hello! Haven't seen you for a while!!!

hello, dear Elaine!
i was thinking of you on 24th! and when i switched into my BV China Red wallet

 

[BowieFan1971]

I just saw that she was online, you guys. It re-opened so many wounds. I decided to block any potential calls or messages she may try to send me in the future. My healing is more important than saying my piece or ripping her a new one - something I really wish to do after seeing her online status. It's just so devastating. I feel so stupid and disposable.

You aren’t going to teach her anything or make her apologize...she is an adult and she knows what she did. If she is ok with it, you aren’t going to make her not ok with it. If having your say helps you get over it, do it and then cut her off. If it won’t, cut her off completely starting now and let it all scab over so the healing can begin.

I am sorry that people can hurt other people and not have the sense of honor to take responsibility for it. It is hard to break up with someone, but it is the right and honorable thing to do. Ghosting is so very cowardly and just plain wrong.

 

[ElainePG]

Challenge #4 today. Sort of. It isn't exactly a date… and it isn't at night. But The Hubster & I are going out together, and he's driving.
Unfortunately, it's to a doctor's appointment.
But since I can't carry crossbody or shoulder strap bags, I looked through my collection and came up with my Mulberry Double-Zip Bayswater. I think it's going to be my most-used bag over the next few months, until I can hang a bag over my shoulder again. It's absolutely perfect. Holds everything I need, is lightweight, and is hand carry.
A year ago, one of my 2020 goals was to sell this bag. Which all goes to show… something.

 

[ElainePG]

hello, dear Elaine!
i was thinking of you on 24th! and when i switched into my BV China Red wallet

That's right… I forgot we're wallet twins! I haven't carried mine in months & months, since I carry so few credit cards. I'm just using a little card holder. But I'm looking forward to getting back into it later this year. And when I do, I'll raise a glass to you!

 

[ElainePG]

I just saw that she was online, you guys. It re-opened so many wounds. I decided to block any potential calls or messages she may try to send me in the future. My healing is more important than saying my piece or ripping her a new one - something I really wish to do after seeing her online status. It's just so devastating. I feel so stupid and disposable.

I think blocking her is an excellent idea. This is definitely a time to be kind to yourself. Healing takes time.

 

[880]

Holds everything I need, is lightweight, and is hand carry.
A year ago, one of my 2020 goals was to sell this bag. Which all goes to show… something

That if we have the room and the budget, we shouldnt get rid of anything? BC we had to have had a good reason for buying something in the first place? Good luck at the doctors and it’s a beautiful bag!

 

[BowieFan1971]

Yes, there is a lot going on. Have you got any ideas of how you want to address your mom? Do you have siblings nearby to consult with, your sister?
I am with you on not putting pressure on ourselves to make decisions about bags while we’re sheltering in place.
Great guidelines on what sizes work for you, minimum 3” depth is a good one. Do you have any thoughts on the no bags smaller than x”?

I have all the things I carry daily in a pouch (lipstick, tampons, hand cream) and slimmed down my wallet carry to an LV mini zip and a card case. I also carry sunglasses and a handkerchief. If a bag can’t carry those things, unless it is a real dress up/formal cocktail dress bag (which I only need the 2 I have), then it is not functional and I won’t use it. For example, I think the Minkoff mini MAB is so cute and I look at them, but I will never use it so it is a waste of money...no matter how much it costs.

My stepfather has things covered with my mom and would get bent if we tried to usurp him. I think things are being handled as best as possible.

 

[ElainePG]

That if we have the room and the budget, we shouldnt get rid of anything? BC we had to have had a good reason for buying something in the first place? Good luck at the doctors and it’s a beautiful bag!

Thank you!
And you make a good point about why not to get rid of a bag. At this point, a year later, I can't even remember why I wanted to get rid of it! I do have the space, and I don't need the funds. I guess because I wasn't using it, but I didn't have my crystal ball with me at the time, and hadn't fathomed that there might be a time when I might want to hand-carry a bag. Live & learn!

 

[keodi]

Challenge #4 today. Sort of. It isn't exactly a date… and it isn't at night. But The Hubster & I are going out together, and he's driving.
Unfortunately, it's to a doctor's appointment.
But since I can't carry crossbody or shoulder strap bags, I looked through my collection and came up with my Mulberry Double-Zip Bayswater. I think it's going to be my most-used bag over the next few months, until I can hang a bag over my shoulder again. It's absolutely perfect. Holds everything I need, is lightweight, and is hand carry.
A year ago, one of my 2020 goals was to sell this bag. Which all goes to show… something.

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Beautiful bag!

 

[dcooney4]

Thanks so much @keodi!

I think you have fabulous style @880.

Awww I am sorry you’re sad about letting go of your Lilys. We have all made selling mistakes. No point in beating yourself up over it. We can just be as mindful of exiting bags as ones we bring into the wardrobe. Try not to think of it as a regret, consider it a building block for mindful curating going forward. (I am working on this, too.) You know what you like and what works for you!

dc, the papaya looks great with this strap, perfect match!

Thanks! I enjoying it now.

 

[dcooney4]

I have all the things I carry daily in a pouch (lipstick, tampons, hand cream) and slimmed down my wallet carry to an LV mini zip and a card case. I also carry sunglasses and a handkerchief. If a bag can’t carry those things, unless it is a real dress up/formal cocktail dress bag (which I only need the 2 I have), then it is not functional and I won’t use it. For example, I think the Minkoff mini MAB is so cute and I look at them, but I will never use it so it is a waste of money...no matter how much it costs.

My stepfather has things covered with my mom and would get bent if we tried to usurp him. I think things are being handled as best as possible.

I am glad you have a stepdad that cares so much for you both. It is not easy. I am not quite in your position but I worry constantly about my parents.

 

[Hazzelnut]

Awww I am sorry you’re sad about letting go of your Lilys. We have all made selling mistakes. No point in beating yourself up over it. We can just be as mindful of exiting bags as ones we bring into the wardrobe. Try not to think of it as a regret, consider it a building block for mindful curating going forward. (I am working on this, too.) You know what you like and what works for you!

Awww. This is a great way to look at it!! I can’t remember my reasoning (everything is a bit foggy during that time), but I’m sure I did have some.

Going to definitely try to use it as an example of being more considerate and mindful of what I get rid of! Fingers crossed!

 

[Lake Effect]

I decided to continue with the challenges and do number two a bit by taking the new bag out right away. I decked her out with a Soretro strap and a veracord organizer. So if I go out today she is ready. View attachment 4956033
It is over cast here so I had to shine a light on her.

Vintage Coach has a Rust color that is quite the mythical beast. I got a large Saddle Bag from the late 70s or early 80s and it looks lovely with it's distressed patina. I would love a less used bag vintage Coach in rust, but they cost big bucks and I just can't return it if it not the shade I like.
I have seen the Papaya option in their offerings since I found the site for PLG last month. And it gives me a little Rust vibe. I wonder how close it is to my HG Rust?

 

[BowieFan1971]

I got a $50 Amazon gift card from my dad and stepmom for my birthday and so bought a scarf from a seller named Grace Scarves. Ordered it on Monday. Free shipping with a supposed arrival on Sunday. It came today and WOW! The silk is thick and supple, the design/colors are precisely printed. The quality is on par with the Cartier I have. Best part- it was $45, with other styles and colors for $45-50. I am really impressed and very pleased!!!! I will be buying from them again and wanted to pass the word. Here is a pic off Amazon and the scarf in the flesh.

 

[More bags]

Thank you! This is perfect. Love your color choices. They are great bags, practical size, luscious leather, shoulder carry. . .

@ElainePG, bags/boyfriends
@SakuraSakura, I’m so sorry. I personally agree with your decision not to respond. You need to put yourself first and heal right now! We’re here for you! Edit: I like the idea of @More bags to write a note and then not send.
@whateve, Samsung health app sounds fantastic.
@dcooney4, I love the new papaya bag with the strap. And yes, I build stuff up in my head all the time. I took a peek at soretro straps and they are lovely. I’ve been buying mine from shoulderbagstrap on Etsy.
@More bags, thank you for the compliment! It’s very appreciated! I also agree that we shouldn’t make serious purging decisions when we are mainly staying at home.
@BowieFan1971, I feel like I should tape your ideal bag dimensions to my screen to prevent impulse buys. I bought a chevre silver clutch last year that is only an envelope, so I almost think it will be mainly used (during covid times) as an interior clutch in a bigger bag. . . But I do love it, so am hopeful that’s not entirely the case going forward. here it is next to a more practical kelly 32 and a chaine d’ancre clutch that has internal organization and depth.
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@880 these clutches are beautiful and your K32 makes me
You have a good eye for finding treasures.

regular both, and Medium Oxblood
but i have a soft spot for bordeaux

Thanks! I love burgundy/bordeaux/oxblood, too. Currently looking at Oxblood regular Lily online!

Challenge #4 today. Sort of. It isn't exactly a date… and it isn't at night. But The Hubster & I are going out together, and he's driving.
Unfortunately, it's to a doctor's appointment.
But since I can't carry crossbody or shoulder strap bags, I looked through my collection and came up with my Mulberry Double-Zip Bayswater. I think it's going to be my most-used bag over the next few months, until I can hang a bag over my shoulder again. It's absolutely perfect. Holds everything I need, is lightweight, and is hand carry.
A year ago, one of my 2020 goals was to sell this bag. Which all goes to show… something.

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This bag is beautiful Elaine, great colour! I am glad you get to use it. Best wishes at the doctors appointment. Who knows where we’ll be a year from now and what we like to carry. Let’s enjoy what we have.